Many parents are wondering if the baby understands what you are told before they start talking. Others simply think that babies do not understand and say many things, sometimes delicate, in his presence.

Baby Understands
The French psychoanalyst Françoise Dolto argues that the baby goes from before acquiring language, thinks he understands the language of their parents and those who love him, even if another language. When the baby feels respect and that he speaks like a human being, seems to have a direct understanding of what is communicated.

In fact, Dolto think during the nine months of gestation, the baby part of the emotions, not only physically, but by a deep complicity based on his voice and a kind of telepathic intuition seems. For her, “the first words uttered in moments of great tenderness left deep traces in memory. It therefore suggests that the newborn infant presented verbally, on sex and words is true.

When the baby cries
When the baby cries or screams Dolto suggests, that parents should try to learn why, so it is good to say: “Do not know why you cry, but I know I want to tell me something.” We must be attentive to what the baby is trying to say, because everything in the child means something. With the word several times does not remove the discomfort, but human.

For all this is very important to talk to the baby all that she is concerned, everything that concerns him. Always will be good to him talk that he is preparing a bottle, that he wants, that’s going to work and back, and so on. Also, if the parents are tired or bad, they should say so as the reason they have. This will humanize the relationship with the child.

Language Discovery
The child discovers the language because he hears his mother speak to him and others in the same way, he learns the language faster. But if the mother goes to the baby as a puppy or kitten, speak evil. To encourage the development of the child, we must speak normally, without exaggeration and truth.

5 good ways to communicate with your baby
1. Be sensitive and caring
2. Be respectful
3. Try to find out the reason of crying
4. Humanize the relationship, explaining the situation
5. Speak clearly and with the right words